Coincidence and sign are both claims. Where are the misses?

i keep watching people pick a side on this... and neither side shows me the misses. If you say sign, how many times did you look for the thing and it never turned up? If you say coincidence, what would have made you say otherwise, and did you decide that before the event or after?

and before either word... how did you sleep the three nights before, did you eat properly, what was the week like? A tired, wound-up mind finds patterns the way a radio between stations finds voices.

i lean toward thinking the working is the page you write the same day, misses included. What would you have to see on that page to change your mind?